Sadomasochistic tenancies

 

I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on loss, grief and so on. At some point I shall share those sketch’s. In the mean time, a thought on loss and hurt. And why when we are hurting we often inflic hurt on those we perceive will inflict a thousand little hurts in return. It’s kind of like the adult form of cutting really. At some point we realize emotional pain, is much better than physical pain. 

When we grieve we shut ourselves off. But we need to feel, at some point we decide to deal with our pain, but it is too much, so we use others as a tool to inflict a thousand exquisit hurts, to deflect our pain. Away from loss, from guilt , from the millions of things which have set the world off axis.