Own your choices

Let's get into it. You made a decision, please own it. And don't go about judging other people's decisions as if your decision is THE only and best way to live a life. If you want to be a stay at home mom, well done you for making that disision stop using your kids as an excuse for why you don't want to see your friends any more, I want to say at home and stare into the eyes of my adorable babies it make me feel complete  is enough of a reason, you don't have to use the whole oh i can't come out kid you know bollocks, it make the rest of us feel like if you don't want a kids or don't have one, your lives are some how inferior and not worthy of your energy, which is bollocks. If the contribution you want to make to society

Is to be the head of a Fortune 500 country, or and artist or spend your time thinking deep thought and contributing to greater knowledge of the world. Well done you, YOU are complete. And if you want to do both heck even better. Well done super woman, but don't you dare go around judging other woman for their choices keep your mouth shut, smile and say I know it's a tough job. Cause get what we need all the help we can get, as woman, since no one else is really doing much to encourage woman Astopysicsits, or entrepreneurs, or moms for that matter. Life is tough enough be kind to your self, figure out what you want and go do it. Even if it apears to be incredibly selfish to everyone else. Your life your contribution.